Children love exploring what happens when they do something - for example - throwing stuff out the window or posting it through a gap in the fence or behind furniture. For them it’s part of everyday learning – and exploring e.g. “Look what happens when I …”. Young children have no idea that it’s only CDs or DVDs that go into the player not just anything that might fit!
Offer a toy that they can hide – and you can find. Play peek a- boo or hide and seek with them. Give them a box with holes in it for them to post stuff in. Empty cardboard tubes and small items make for fun posting games – watch out the items aren’t so small that they’re a choking risk.
Nothing more frustrating when you have an appointment to get to and you can’t find your keys phone, wallet or glasses. But if you leave them within reach of exploring hands, it’s not really fair to blame your kids when you can’t find them at the last minute. Work out a system that works for you and them- e.g. get into the habit of keeping your keys, wallet and bag on a hook by the door, phone in the same place so you can find it in a hurry.
When you’ve got kids under five, it’s easy for things to get lost in the chaos. And even if your child has hidden whatever it is, they’ll probably have forgotten where they put it by now. So rather than getting frustrated, make it an excuse for a tidy up together – you’ll feel better and more organized even if you don’t find the missing object.
Over it? Use your phone timer to set a time limit for a play activity – your full attention for five minutes is better than half pai for longer.
Had enough? You may feel like you need alcohol or drugs to relax – but they often make the situation worse, especially when you have to deal with kids. Who could help you cut down or cut it out?